Could be Gods way of giving you the time to repent. Some he didn’t.
Dude, that is whacked.
True.
Same could be said of cancer.
It’s how my dad got saved. It gave him time to reflect and see how bad of a dude he was. Had he been struck by a car and killed DRT, he’d have descended to Hell.
As it so happens, harsh things sometimes are acts of Mercy by The Lord.