We didn’t dump my grandmother on anyone but took care of her ourselves ... and one nurse they sent in to help still robbed us. Never trust, never turn your back.
I’m really angry!
How can they still from an innocent elderly person?
When our mother was in a nursing home after a stroke, she developed the obvious problems (bedsores mainly) typical of poor care and attention of nursing home staff - and it was not a cheap facility either.
At that point my sister, God bless her, (and who has nursing skills) could not stand seeing this, and took the personal decision to bring Mom home, and put her own career and life on hold, to care for her. We all supported her as much as possible. Sis will always have my deepest respect and debt for that. At least mom passed at home, in her own bed, with the best care in the world possible.
Happens all the time.