No, the latter is a mating ritual. Showing the ability and interest to make decades of preparing home cooked meals worthwhile. Take a look at the animal kingdom—that is when the males work hardest, before they have won over their mate.
And when the woman knows in advance that she has no intent whatsoever of continuing contact or a relationship, it's fraud.
Remember the guy in California who serially skipped out on paying for dates?
"Two breasts good, no breasts bad."