And you can be asexual and very gay. Tim Gunn is a very interesting man. He sets off all gaydar but in truth he is asexual, though of course his orientation appears male to male. He lives alone and doesn’t date.
How can one be ‘asexual’ and ‘homosexual’ at the same time?
People may appear to be ‘gay’, while they are really asexual.
It seems that people project their preconceived notions onto others whose experience they just don’t understand.
A lot of people want others to be exactly like they are; and if the others are not, they don’t understand and can’t just ‘leave alone’.