Um, um, spicy fermented cabbage! I like it sometimes with dinner. Then my wife doesn’t want to sleep with me.
My first hospital stay at the VA was with 3 room mates.
They served stuffed cabbage for dinner. Was like....are you serious?
Also, Maangchi. Good stuff.
https://www.youtube.com/user/Maangchi
My wife is half Japanese and her mom made great homemade Kimchi. I love it and my wife hates it. I buy some great Kimchi from an oriental market near home and my wife will see it in the fridge and just shake her head. Go figure.