Hospice is usually for care when reaching the end of ones life. You do not tell us if your mom is there due to illness or anything regarding her usual state of health.
Mental changes can be slow or acute in elderly patients but, as you describe her disorientation during your last visit, I guess this is been ongoing.
Go and see her and tell her stories from the past. She will relate to these better than any recent events. Give Thanks for the time you have and you will both be better for it.
Praying for you both.
She is in hospice due to the progression of dementia/Alzheimer’s, frequent urinary tract infections, anemia, dehydration, difficulty swallowing, extreme weight loss. Neither my sister nor I want “to put her somewhere” other than in her own home. Mother invested wisely and has enough funds to cover the 24/7 in-home caregiver expenses for at least another five years.
That’s why I try to call her everyday! When we talk, I mention stories of situations/people she has often recalled with fond memories. I tell her about our family. And I try to have one of those “dirty jokes” she seems to enjoy! ;)