She is in hospice due to the progression of dementia/Alzheimer’s, frequent urinary tract infections, anemia, dehydration, difficulty swallowing, extreme weight loss. Neither my sister nor I want “to put her somewhere” other than in her own home. Mother invested wisely and has enough funds to cover the 24/7 in-home caregiver expenses for at least another five years.
That’s why I try to call her everyday! When we talk, I mention stories of situations/people she has often recalled with fond memories. I tell her about our family. And I try to have one of those “dirty jokes” she seems to enjoy! ;)
Consider upgrading your calls to video calls.
Perhaps to a tablet.
FaceTime or Google Hangouts are good for that.
With a WiFi video intercom device like a “Nucleus”, you can even check in on her remotely and initiate the call yourself without her having to do anything.
Also, set her location reporting on her devices so you can track them/her.
I was blessed that my Dad and I were able to care for my Mom at home until the end.