Yes you certainly do posses those qualities. You have been obsessive in trying to convince me what I should or shouldn't do. You are obsessed to the point that you have posted numerous posts to me because I apparently had the temerity to inquire if a poster meant what his word means in the urban dictionary or whether there was some other benign explanation.
Now can you be a man, and just let it be? After all, I really wasn't seeking your useless input. All you have offered is your opinion. Opinion noted and quite frankly ignored.