A public expression of sympathy would be appropriate
A letter certainly
Calling someone who hasnt yet buried her husband - not good
Intrusive actually
plus you cannot call them all so do not play politics like this one
And stop saying what obama did or didn’t do
Thats immature
Good answer. I wish you were on a Trump advisory board.
As the father of an active duty USAF pilot in harm’s way, I can say for my part a letter would be plenty. I am more concerned that the life given be not given in vain.