I am 55, single and never married. Looking back, I am glad that I did not marry. It would have been a disaster; I was immature and not would have not known what hit me. Without getting into details, the marriage and the eventual divorce would have destroyed me.
I am happy with who I am now. I have peace of mind.
I’m 61 never married either. I have a ‘girl friend and shes kinda heavy but we get along. Not romantic though and we never had relations all these years. I help her a lot on her farm stuff. She’s conservative, Christian and a can do kinda woman. Sometimes I wish it was more but she’s not the affectionate type so I leave that alone. It is what it is but somehow I’m ok with it but I wouldn’t mind some sex now and then. I date some women now and then but it never seems to work out so the platonic friend stays consistent over time. What it is.