I’m 61 never married either. I have a ‘girl friend and shes kinda heavy but we get along. Not romantic though and we never had relations all these years. I help her a lot on her farm stuff. She’s conservative, Christian and a can do kinda woman. Sometimes I wish it was more but she’s not the affectionate type so I leave that alone. It is what it is but somehow I’m ok with it but I wouldn’t mind some sex now and then. I date some women now and then but it never seems to work out so the platonic friend stays consistent over time. What it is.
you are her beta male handyman and emotional support. if you didnt help her she wouldn’t give you the time of day.