In a past single life I met some very attractive lesbians and not of the porn star variety. In fact some were nice intelligent girls who seemed very dateable, until you learned their orientation. They were mostly younger and kind of naive, their partners tended to be domineering, crude, insecure, and usually heavy drinkers, not a good combination. They were pretty girls who were tired of dealing with guys and they still ended up with jerks. And, as the Plimsouls would say “that’s the oldest story in the world”.
Sounds like you’re describing “casual” lesbians... they get sick of guys, go experiment, then get sick of bull dykes and go back to guys. Permanent lesbians are pretty much all too ugly to attract men in the first place.
LOL. I once dated a hunky guy who’d had a series of lesbian roommates.
The experience led him to conclude that there’s really no such thing as a lesbian. Every one of them ended up crawling into his bed when their lezzie girlfriends weren’t watching.
He said they always started out insisting that a male roomie was just for safety and security, to protect them from rapists.
You know, kind of like a good guy with a gun, to protect them from all the other bad guys with...uh...guns.