I’m black and I don’t want to put myself in most black people’s shoes for precisely the reasons you stated.
I’ll tell you 2 things that opened my eyes to separating myself as much as possible from most blacks:
1. Tommy Sotomayor’s YouTube shows with news from across the country about blacks. I’m from the big city and I had no idea blacks were doing the hideous crimes he talks about (complete with local news footage). It’s shocking what goes on in these communities.
2. I moved to a rural state in flyover country. There are <3% blacks here, but the prisons are full of blacks. At first I thought there was terrible racism going on, then, after living here for a few years, I realized that, yup, blacks actually were committing most of the crimes. A good number of them come down from Chicago and bring their criminal ways. The regular people here are wonderful; the colored folks from Chicago, not so much.
Hillary is a racist, anti-semitic herself and is the last person to lecture others on racism.