As a matter of fact this is a far cry from the normal [I use the term advisedly] feminist position. I look for Ms. Hinsliff to be twitter-shamed and destroyed on the Interwebs for her heterodox position.
All PIV sex is an affirmation of the white-cisheteropatriarchy, and is therefore not only rape but a crime against humanity.
Hinsliff's opinion would once have been considered fringekooky. Now it is regarded as right wing hate speech. Look for her auto-da-fé in the pages of The Guardian soon.
I’m sick of men being responsible for every level of bat crap crazy reasoning that women invent.
If they don’t like men or you don’t like a man, they should leave them the hell alone. Then men won’t have to have three witnesses to testify as to whether or not the woman had sufficient fervor before, during, and after the sexual act.
We are quickly approaching the day that all sex will require a government umpire.
I need you to sign three copies of this consent form. Oh, plus i need to film you showing enthusiasm during any sex we may have.
As a female who is jaded, cynical and real, having been married twice and having gone down the primrose path more than a few times when single, too-I must point out that while this may be a man’s world, I’m quite sure they can’t fake an orgasm-so how is the guy to know genuine enthusiasm from faux enthusiasm?
Ms Hinsliff is in lalaland...
Is she trying to make the case that Women Cannot ever be trusted and should never be allowed to vote or hold office??
It’s best to make the woman beg for sex.
Liquor in the front
Poker in the rear
If she don’t yip n grunt
You likely got a queer
See a cutie in a mini (it is mini season here in Chicago) on the street and think “wow, what a cutie!” = RAPE!
See a “plus sized woman” in a mini and think “she probably should not be wearing a mini” = RAPE!
See a lovely woman in a business suit and think “what a professional looking woman I would do business with her” = RAPE!
Oh boy, if this keeps up, the only way it wont be rape is if she strips naked, gets a blood alcohol test, has you sign a pre-sex agreement and then begs you to have sex.
OK, just read the original article, and the Pundit misrepresents the woman’s point.
You really can’t argue with what she is saying, as it is what I would tell any young man.
Did the hysterical vagina-driven man-hating dike condemn bill clinton for his sexual harassment of monica lewinsky?
ah before i stick it in can you sign this consent form... thanks
So.....if I consent to sex with a woman but do not do so enthusiastically the she has raped me? For how much can I sue?
They’ve got me to admitting my racism; convincing me I’m also a rapist should have been foreseen. It’s a damned good thing I live alone or lord knows I’d be on death row somewhere.
“... if you don’t do it enthusiastically, it is rape”.
So do I buy glo sticks, a tambourine and glitter? Is that showing enough enthusiasm?! Do I make a huge banner and display it in the bedroom?
I don’t know that this relates to the subject at hand. But it’s a funny story. Sick. But funny. Anyway:
Years ago one of my managers was fooling around with this beautiful young blonde who worked with us. Bat shit crazy. But beautiful. Eventually she attempted suicide and was committed to a mental institution. After she had been there a few weeks my manager got to where he’d go by and check her out about once a week. They’d go back to his house, have sex, and then he’d take her back to the institution.
This had been going on for a while, and I finally asked him about it. I said something like “Damn Bill! You really think it’s O.K. to be taking this girl home and doing what you are doing?”
Bill: “Hell David, even the mentally ill like to have sex.”
So, I guess you can rationalize anything.
Tie her to the bed post
Enthusiastically spank her alabaster ass
She’ll show enthusiasm I guarantee
This woman is projecting her lack of enthusiasm on us
Sex is about letting go and being hypnotized by the moment and even submitting to varying degrees. Men too
A woman who at her core dislikes men or patrimony and all that
Is incapable of complete sexual surrender to a man and herself
Same goes for men to women too
If you don’t love women you can’t make love to them like they need and deserve
I think I could fix her with some rehabilitation time
Kindly but firmly
No matter how enthusiastic the participation, if the b@$t@rd didn’t call her the next day, it was rape!
Enthusiasm at that level would lead some to think that maybe the man was being raped. ;-)