Good call on your part on the eviction. Make clear if she ever decides to grow up, become an adult and be a part of the family vice a curse to it tell her you’ll welcome her back.. but only on those terms.
Your responsibility is to teach right & wrong, the right morals and ethics and to lay the foundation to make it in life and tell them you love them. Their job is to learn but it’s their choice not yours.
Eventually most will come around but if they don’t and you did the above, you’re not at fault.
True, wise, good words.