How would you phrase it?
What’s the problem with calling it what it is? When a woman drinks herself into a state of intoxication and engages in sexual relations with a stranger it isn’t sexual assault. It’s frankly, whore’s remorse or in this case drunken whore’s remorse. Women are responsible for the decisions they make (as are men). If women choose to drink themselves into a state of intoxication they have no business blaming others for the poor decisions they made in that state.