Whoa girl.. I got custody in two divorces, from upstanding women, and raised 5 kids as a single Dad, but the reason was totally understandable.. I don't think TradeMarken's situation was the same.. In my case I gave up the money (big bucks) totally, and accepted joint custody, with me as custodial parent... Follow the money, and more things become clearer.. LOL
I would hazard a guess that you were not in the same situation as the St Skittles family.
for THEIR situation..it is odd.
Mom obviously takes the one kid because no one knows who his dad is..but it’s not Tracy.
Tracy’s kid goes with the father.
It doesn’t sound like they got joint custody but even if they did...Dad was the one who raised him.