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To: Catmom
The previous comments are good advice for day-to-day relations.

If you choose to remain and work under her, which it sounds like you're inclined to do, I would journal/document any interaction with her that might be construed as tense, controversial or "disloyal" [from her point of view, not necessarily yours]. Don't tell your coworkers you're doing it b/c it will just look like you're a troublemaker. In the event there's ever a "she said/she said" situation, her superiors will be inclined to side with her based on her position. Your documented facts will offset her advantage and may protect you.

I hate to sound cynical, but the type of person you are describing will lie to protect themselves...

32 posted on 06/21/2013 2:46:17 PM PDT by IFly4Him
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To: IFly4Him

I’ve never known her to lie but she does seem to have an agenda.


34 posted on 06/21/2013 2:50:13 PM PDT by Catmom
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To: IFly4Him
If you choose to remain and work under her, which it sounds like you're inclined to do, I would journal/document any interaction with her that might be construed as tense, controversial or "disloyal" [from her point of view, not necessarily yours]. Don't tell your coworkers you're doing it b/c it will just look like you're a troublemaker. In the event there's ever a "she said/she said" situation, her superiors will be inclined to side with her based on her position. Your documented facts will offset her advantage and may protect you. I hate to sound cynical, but the type of person you are describing will lie to protect themselves...

This is excellent advice, especially when you know you are in a tense situation. Don't let yourself get blindsided and feel helpless after you are laid off five minutes before some important deadline that will affect your retirement.

54 posted on 06/21/2013 3:22:37 PM PDT by Albion Wilde ("Remember... the first revolutionary was Satan."--Russian Orthodox Archpriest Dmitry Smirnov)
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