According to a study done a few years ago those children who turned out just fine knew the difference between uncontrollable circumstance situations versus deliberate (selfish, to say nothing of deviant)circumstances.
That’s my point. Just because children are not brought up in a long-term two-parent (male and female) household doesn’t condemn them to a miserable life...unless the reason they are brought up that way is ideological (that is, rejection of the concept of that type of family).
And with the gays, this has nothing to do with children or parenting: it’s all ideological, to force not only acceptance but adherence to their strange cult of their private parts.