Please don't be dense. She was ashamed in the beginning. I didn't think I needed to spell that out. The Fact that Stanley Ann had to leave Hawaii to go to school in Washington instead of just continuing her classes in Hawaii, ought to tell you there was a big hooforah about the whole incident. Also, when your daughter has your first Grandchild, you TELL your co-workers, unless there is a reason why you don't want to. Many grandparents keep pictures of their grandchildren on their desks.