- ***You’re none too bright, are you? My point was that the mods are only hands off with the seagulls and you reinforce it by saying that they got me to stop chasing seagulls.
Oh, I got the point, wa-ay back, many threads ago, when you first had included in your Ecat threads, a series of online self-pity parties, whining about the very same thing. You ran around repeating loudly [some form of] 'unfair, unfair' until it trailed of to you mumbling about it, and you keep that up, to this day.
Yeah, I get the point, but it's an obtuse one. Dense, even.
You just don't get it? After all this time as a registered at FR, you still don't understand the why's and wherefore's of the whole enchilada? Ok. maybe you're too close. Time to step away from the taco sauce...
Is your pride in your own hand-crafted tortillas so over-weening that you must continue with this defense mechanism? Apparently so...
It's either that, something along those lines, or you're not as smart as I'd otherwise prefer to give you credit for.
Which is it? You tell me.
Perhaps you actually could consider the possibility that there was nothing much wrong, or "unfair" at you being asked to "knock it off" in no uncertain terms. Can you do that?
What do you have to lose, but something which is decidedly NOT making you feel good. It's causing unhappiness. It's not needed or helpful to you or others. All you have to do is admit to yourself you've been misguided in your emotions and thoughts concerning that incident. Forgive yourself, and let it go. Then that miserable mist that has been clouding the morning, will get burned off with the warmth of the midday sun. You'll look up after a short while, and it will be gone...
But you will notice that a ill-defined, but noticable sense of unease will have been lifted from you. You might not even have noticed that you'd been carrying it around, until it LEAVES, then you'll notice, and feel wonderfully at peace about things, and re-invigorated.
