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My Brother Died of the Flu at Age 49

Posted on 03/06/2011 7:06:34 AM PST by big black dog

How can this happen in 2011? I was just talking with him 3 weeks ago about possibly going bass fishing with him in Mexico this Spring.

Seems he checked into the hospital about a week ago complaining of respiratory troubles after contracting the flu. They released him shortly after. He posted on his Facebook page at that time about how it sucks being sick, and how good it would be just to walk 20 feet without gasping for breath.

2 days later, hie son and ex-wife found him dead in bed.

I am stunned. He was in good health. No one that age is supposed to die of the flu.


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KEYWORDS: flu; influenza
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To: big black dog

Pneumonia nearly killed me a week ago and I was dead for 30 minutes, but they brought me back and sorry for your loss, but I understand.


61 posted on 03/06/2011 8:19:14 AM PST by Trueblackman (The American People are looking beyond Obama.)
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To: big black dog

Sincerest condolences. Prayers.


62 posted on 03/06/2011 8:20:28 AM PST by Lando Lincoln
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To: big black dog; All
We're all sorry for your loss.

Influenza is a killer. In the "modern" era, we've been conditioned to believe that "modern" medicine can take care of almost any ailment. The truth is, however, that it cannot.

Several decades ago, there was a television "doctor drama" called Marcus Welby, M.D. In that program, the kind, all-knowing, wise Dr. Welby worked long hours, knew the answer to all medical problems, spent long periods with his patients and was the perfect doctor and human being.

We, of the era were conditioned to believe that that's how it was in real life. Unfortunately, it ain't so. Just about two weeks ago, my wife almost died of double pneumonia. Despite two courses of strong antibiotics, she still has the illness. The doctor told her that she should recover in six to eight weeks with bed rest.

How can this be? Well, first, she caught the pneumonia from me. I caught it in a hospital where I was visiting. I was hospitalized for my double pneumonia and had to have an IV antibiotic, oral antibiotics and oxygen to survive. The illness came on virtually overnight. One day I was fine and the next, I was so sick I couldn't get out of bed. (There's some bad germs going around out there!)

Why am I telling you this story? Well, to make the point that there indications that new and particularly virulent "super bugs" are out there. They can't all readily be controlled with the antibiotics we have become accustomed to rely upon. While influenza is a virus and cannot be treated with antibiotics, sometimes bacterial infections take hold while the body is struggling to overcome what is supposed to be "just a case of the flu.

Doctors make mistakes. These mistakes can result in misdiagnosis, complications and even death. We, our body's owner, must not rely solely on the treatment (if any) of a physician. We must take all the precautions possible to protect ourselves.

63 posted on 03/06/2011 8:30:13 AM PST by oneolcop (Lead, Follow or Get the Hell Out of the Way!)
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To: struggle

Yes, there is something in the air that is making people sick. they have colds they can’t get over. My daughter has been coughing since December 3rd. Wakes her up at night.

I never have an allergy problem, yet now I sneeze constantly and my eyes are red and itchy. A mild complaint, but an unusual one for me.

Pneumonia can be a killer in spite of the modern meds. All the docs now just hit you with a Z-pac or whatever letter and it’s kind of lost it’s effectiveness. By the time you realize it isn’t working, you’re really sick.

I’m so sorry about the untimely death of the brother. That really hurts.

A young man we knew (in his twenties) died of pneumonia. He knew he wasn’t well, but he continued to go to work. They used to call it walking pneumonia. And then one day, he died.


64 posted on 03/06/2011 8:30:32 AM PST by altura
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To: big black dog

I am so sorry to hear this! Tragic news! RIP dear brother.


65 posted on 03/06/2011 8:33:40 AM PST by Ditter
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To: big black dog

Sincere condolences on the loss of your dear brother. May God help you cope with the loss.


66 posted on 03/06/2011 8:34:06 AM PST by altura
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To: Justa

The drug isn’t dangerous, but misdiagnosing yourself is. Taking antibiotics for the flu is setting yourself up for a major infection later.


67 posted on 03/06/2011 8:39:00 AM PST by Kirkwood (Zombie Hunter)
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To: Old Retired Army Guy
Back 40 years ago the flu vaccine contained and live virus and EVERYONE came down with the flu after wards. It has not been that way for a long long time. I am 70 years old and I have not had the flu since I began taking a yearly flu shot with the killed virus. Before that I had it every year. The flu virus and the bacterial infections that come afterward are deadly for old folks.
68 posted on 03/06/2011 8:39:25 AM PST by Ditter
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To: altura

This is just a very small add to the medical conversation. I have a history of colds becoming upper respiratory infections. Usually need antibiotics which for me usually work.

However, I also have acid reflux and have discovered when I get the cold and coughing, the increased acid irritates my throat and really makes symptoms worse. I mention that because your daughter may have the additional complication.

Now, I hesitate to mention this last one but here goes. Sold in many drug stores and at Whole Foods, in the cold remedy aisle, is an herbal remedy called Umcka. It is supposed to be both antiviral and antibacterial, and specifically aimed at upper respiratory and lung infection.

They claim the Umcka is clinically shown to be effective. I only know my last two colds progressed through everything including congestion BUT not the debilitating infection that almost always occurred before. They say it is highly used in Europe.

Of course, my doctor’s reaction is, the key words are it is “supposed to” do something. Then again, he never heard of Umcka.


69 posted on 03/06/2011 8:41:44 AM PST by Williams (It's the policies, stupid.)
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To: meatloaf
the pandemic (flu) of 1918 the highest mortality was for those between twenty and forty.
The Spanish Flu pandemic was unbelievable and killed more people than WWI.
I did a genealogy project two years ago and discovered my great aunt died in NYC in April 1918 at 55 y/o. The DC listed pneumonia as the cause and I wondered if it was the early version of the Spanish Flu.
Later, I discovered her 20 y/o son died in November 1918 from pneumonia - and the next day his 11 month old daughter did too.
No doubt in my mind it was flu. How sad.
70 posted on 03/06/2011 8:45:32 AM PST by oh8eleven (RVN '67-'68)
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To: big black dog

Sincerely regret your loss.
As to etiology of the illness? I wonder if doctors had checked for BOOP? A very, very insidious form of pneumonia. Difficult to diagnose. Difficult to treat. Can be fatal. Very debilitating.
Mayo Clinic has done wonders with this illness. In fact, they wrote the book on it, literally.
Oft times patient on Prednisone for months after wards. Antibiotics. Stunning doses of both.


71 posted on 03/06/2011 8:45:41 AM PST by donozark (I refuse to be ostracized and victimized by the aged Christian women on FR)
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To: Old Retired Army Guy

It’s in medically incorrect thinking like this that can result in the death of a seemingly healthy 49 year old from a disease that’s probability is reduced by 80+ percent from a simple vaccine.
The CDC advises all persons greater than 6 months of age to get an influenza vaccine yearly. Only medical reason not to is either egg allergy and possibly a history of Guillian-Barre’ Syndrome (which has never been proven to have been caused by the vaccine).
Vaccines from the 70’s were considerably different than current medical technology - so you might want to reconsider. If not, get seen within the first 48 hours of a fever causing illness in flu season to get meds to shorten the course and reduce your chance of a life-threatening complication. Good Luck...


72 posted on 03/06/2011 8:49:14 AM PST by Froggie
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To: big black dog

My condolences on your loss. May he rest in peace.


73 posted on 03/06/2011 8:50:36 AM PST by fieldmarshaldj (~"This is what happens when you find a stranger in the Amber Lamps !"~~)
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To: big black dog

I’m so sorry.
God bless.


74 posted on 03/06/2011 8:53:06 AM PST by patriot08 (TEXAS GAL- born and bred and proud of it!)
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To: Errant

The pneumonia shot is something of a misnomer. It protects against Streptococcal Pneumonia (85% of pneumonias obtained in the general population) but does nothing for viral pneumonias like influenza. People should receive influenza vaccines yearly in Sept - Nov. optimally - and a pneumonia vaccine at or about age 60 or sooner if they have chronic illness such as lung disease or immune diseases or prior spleen removal.


75 posted on 03/06/2011 8:53:15 AM PST by Froggie
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To: Justa

Of course Amoxacillin or any other antibiotic does nothing for influenza - unless it’s complicated by a bacterial process. Viral pneumonia from Influenza are not responsive to antibiotics.


76 posted on 03/06/2011 8:56:53 AM PST by Froggie
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To: big black dog

I am so sorry for your loss. May the Lord give you peace during this time.


77 posted on 03/06/2011 8:58:08 AM PST by ninergold3 (Let Go and Let God - He IS In Control)
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To: Williams
My colds and flu always left me with a sinus infection that took antibiotics and a doctor visit to cure. Then I bought a Neti Pot at Whole Foods and I wash my sinuses 2 to 4 times a day as soon as I catch the cold. I have not had a sinus infection since, been doing that for at least 8 years now.
78 posted on 03/06/2011 9:02:27 AM PST by Ditter
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To: big black dog

I pray you get the answers you need to help you cope with this sudden and tragic loss. God bless you.


79 posted on 03/06/2011 9:10:12 AM PST by BykrBayb (Somewhere, my flower is there. ~ Þ)
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To: big black dog

Am so sorry. I know it is no comfort, but: the “great flus” can kill even the strong and (otherwise) healthy. In the late teens, the flu epidemic killed millions, including many like your brother. :(


80 posted on 03/06/2011 9:11:34 AM PST by pogo101
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