I in NO way will justify their lifestyle, however, Joh 8:7 So when they continued asking him, he lifted up himself, and said unto them, He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.
Yes, but no Right Wing Christian would throw a stone either. We don’t hate gays, we hate what they do.
The reason everyone says they hate gays is because Christians won’t give in and say that this activity isn’t a sin. We can embrace them, call them brother, pray with them, but we can’t accept them as Christian leaders while they sin. They can be Godly in every way to our face, but as long as they live in sin they can’t be Christian Leaders, they will be sinners that refuse to repent.
Christian’s position has been that this is a sin against God’s creation, a perversion, and if you don’t change you will be punished for it. God felt strong enough to destroy and lay waste to whole cities because of this.