we are all different,
my wife was very hesitant at first, the noise and recoil, but my wife now smiles as she pumps the next round into the chamber. She LOVES blasting watermelons..I have no doubt, this girl would pull the trigger.
Get your wife one anyway, better to have the choice, than not. PS, women in a crunch, will surprise you.
I’m looking for a 20 ga, less recoil.
I’ve been told that all you need is a recording of the pump-action shotgun - the most recognized sound of “i mean business”