At my daughter’s school, she can sign a waiver and allow us to view.
That’s the way to do it. The university must protect its students and their privacy. If mom and dad are paying the way, they will have to arrange progress reports with their kids.
Even better than that, she can be persuaded to sign the waiver by the ones who control the money: The parents.
As children age, the one challenge for parents is to identify and use the ever-dwindling levers of power to encourage good behavior, or, at least, safe and sensible behavior. Controlling the purse strings almost always appears on that list.