there is a Luo tradition that illegitimate babies cannot go live with a new family..and can even be killed. They are considered bad spirits..or some such thing. I can’t remember the exact details.
They have to go live with the grandparents.
The Luo can go have sex with various girls as long as they don’t penetrate. I guess they have to marry the girl if they do that.
Well that gives pause to Stanley Ann's supposed idea to go live in Kenya after Sr's finished at Haaarvard unless she planned on going to Kenya and get tribally married before birth. When did she find out that Sr was already married and did he explain the whole tribal polygamy customs to her?