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A Bellowing Silence: Freeper reasons for leaving your church. (Vanity question.)
Vanity ^ | 03/19/07 | Dutchgirl

Posted on 03/19/2008 6:27:57 AM PDT by Dutchgirl

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Many Freepers are asking why Obama did not leave his church. No one leaves his church lightly. In this season of Lent, I recently re-watched one of my favorite films "A Man for All Seasons," about the life of Thomas More, the Patron Saint of Politicians.

I have been in a position of leaving a congregation in accordance with my conscience. I know I am not alone. I am interested in Freeper input in Obama's inaction, not so much on the issue of race, or politics, but from a standpoint of faith.

What was your tipping point? Did you leave quietly or did more than your silence bellow?

1 posted on 03/19/2008 6:27:58 AM PDT by Dutchgirl
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To: Dutchgirl

I am attending a church now that I am considering leaving. Why? Because the Father speaks contantly about the evils and failings of the United States, calling this country greedy and selfish. He speaks more about Martin Luther King, Jr., than of Jesus. The only reason I have stuck around thus far is because of my wife.


2 posted on 03/19/2008 6:31:45 AM PDT by 7thson (I've got a seat at the big conference table! I'm gonna paint my logo on it!)
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To: Dutchgirl

Our family left a Church after a new pastor arrived who had a habit of making excuses for scripture that didn’t fit a liberal agenda. He also planned on bringing in Muslims to speak in order for the flock to accept diversity.


3 posted on 03/19/2008 6:32:09 AM PDT by armymarinemom (My sons freed Iraqi and Afghan Honor Roll students.)
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I stopping attending the pretend Masses at the University of Chicago's Newman Center after lodging a protest.

I then began attending actual Masses at St. John Cantius.

I would point out that there is a difference between abandoning a sick congregation and abandoning the Church.

4 posted on 03/19/2008 6:32:26 AM PDT by wideawake (Why is it that those who call themselves Constitutionalists know the least about the Constitution?)
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To: Dutchgirl

He doesn’t have to leave the church, he just has to speak out against the racism.


5 posted on 03/19/2008 6:33:56 AM PDT by AppyPappy (If you aren't part of the solution, there is good money to be made prolonging the problem.)
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What was your tipping point? Did you leave quietly or did more than your silence bellow?

My wife and I left the ELCA some years ago for: 1) Anti-American screed from the pulpit after 9/11; 2) pro-gay theology.

By pro-gay theology, I mean the acceptance of gays within the clergy, and within the communicant membership. The Bible teaches otherwise. It also teaches that we can become one with God by divesting our old self. The ELCA has chosen to ignore this requirement.

6 posted on 03/19/2008 6:40:59 AM PDT by bcsco (To heck with a third party. We need a second one....)
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To: Dutchgirl

I’m flabbergasted by the willingness of allegedly faithful people to stay in a church that openly tolerates or promotes sin.


7 posted on 03/19/2008 6:44:26 AM PDT by Sloth (Senator He-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named, D - Illinois)
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To: Dutchgirl

I left when the church decided to become an entertainment mega church.


8 posted on 03/19/2008 6:44:36 AM PDT by pops88 (geek chick over 40)
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To: Dutchgirl
My Father bailed on the Episcopalian church after it went wacko.
He, and 2/3 of the congregation picked up and moved to a Ugandan Anglican Church. These folks are rigorous Christians who put most of us to shame.
9 posted on 03/19/2008 6:44:51 AM PDT by Little Ray (McCain: If I have to. I guess...)
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To: Dutchgirl

I left the temple that my family belonged to for over 60 years when the rabbi claimed that Jews in the USSR were “happy living under Communism” and didn’t want to go to Israel. This was in 1970. Of course a few years later when “Saving Soviet Jewry” was all the rage, the temple changed its policy but by that time I found another congregation and was long gone.


10 posted on 03/19/2008 6:45:08 AM PDT by Alouette (Vicious Babushka)
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To: Convert from ECUSA

your story requested


11 posted on 03/19/2008 6:45:58 AM PDT by Alouette (Vicious Babushka)
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From the standpoint of faith, adherence to Scriptural principles, and personal integrity, here is my opinion. If I were to feel compelled by conscience to leave a church, I would do so and I would tell people in that church that I considered friends that I feel compelled by the Spirit to leave. I would not publicize my reasons for leaving, as doing so would most likely be gossip. If FRIENDS were to ask why I am leaving, I would share with them my reasons in general terms to the extent I could do so without gossipping. Also, if there were a specific person (such as the pastor) whose actions or teachings had prompted my decision, I would talk directly to that person about my decision and the Scriptural basis for why I believe it compels me to leave.

None of this has anything to do with Obama’s decisions or actions as I can’t see much of anything about his church that relates to Jesus Christ or to His Great Commission to the church.


12 posted on 03/19/2008 6:46:21 AM PDT by VRWCmember
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13 posted on 03/19/2008 6:47:29 AM PDT by Alouette (Vicious Babushka)
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To: Dutchgirl

Thanks for reminding me of that wonderful scene. I too watched it recently. I also love his speech about the law protecting the devil.


14 posted on 03/19/2008 6:48:09 AM PDT by Mercat (If anyone considers himself religious and yet does not keep a tight rein on his tongue)
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I left a church when the pastor became more and more politically liberal from the pulpit. When he joyfully said clinton had been found “innocent” instead of “not being removed from office” after his impeachment, I couldn't take it any more. I never went back.
15 posted on 03/19/2008 6:51:22 AM PDT by Ditter
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I live in the south. Many elderly members of my congregation are old school racists, however, the leadership of the church has been working to change attitudes. I expect active sinners, like myself,in the congregation, but I look to our leadership to remind me of the right path and set an example.


16 posted on 03/19/2008 6:56:19 AM PDT by Dutchgirl
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When your church is like a family to you, it's easy to overlook a lot of things. My wife and I struggled for almost two years before we finally made the break from our church.
We didn't leave because of any political reasons. The church grew from a small 300 member congregation to a 4000+ member mega-church. We lost the intimate, spirit filled atmosphere we found there years ago and went hollywood. We no longer felt that we were being spiritually fed there.
We had many friends there and even though it became increasingly uncomfortable for us to remain, we dragged out our departure hoping that something, either in the church or ourselves, would change.
17 posted on 03/19/2008 6:57:19 AM PDT by Malone LaVeigh
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To: AppyPappy
He doesn’t have to leave the church, he just has to speak out against the racism.

If the church isn't preaching God's Word, then he should leave. It isn't God's Church anymore.

18 posted on 03/19/2008 6:57:32 AM PDT by bcsco (To heck with a third party. We need a second one....)
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To: Alouette

When I was evangelical protestant, I left a congregation in the early 90s due to coverups by a former pastor and his buddies of his adultery. He thundered against “sin”, but both he and the associate pastor were quite busy with different women in the congregation.

I was then in the Episcopal Church but had been growing more unhappy with the stance of 815 (shorthand for the ECUSA HQ in NYC). The final reason I left the ECUSA in the summer of 2003 was the fiasco of the V.Gene Robinson disgrace. The parish I was attending at the time in Virginia was not one of the usual rad-lib wacko type ECUSA parishes, it was an exception.

If I had ever attended a church where the pastor spewed the racist, anti-Semitic, and anti-USA hatred like Jeremiah Wright, I’d have walked out the first time I heard it and never returned.


19 posted on 03/19/2008 6:57:40 AM PDT by Convert from ECUSA (Changing things in Washington is not unlike changing a baby’s diaper. It gets dirty again.)
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To: Dutchgirl

Because Obama has so little experience, we need to examine how Obama conducted his own life. The problems with his “church”, and how he dealt with it, are certainly open for review.

Did he recognize that there was a problem?
Were his ears and eyes open?
Did he choose to ignore the problem, or choose not to take a position of leadership?

Or did he simply agree with Rev. Wright and accept his anti-American rants as good teaching?

If Obama wishes to be an agent of change as President, one has to ask, what did he do to change his church?


20 posted on 03/19/2008 7:12:44 AM PDT by kidd
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