I can't imagine why you'd be surprised that many on this forum are against the homosexual agenda and homosexualism. It isn't as if this view has not been established by the Founder in his Statement.
Many many of us actually agree with the entire Statement, not just select bits and pieces. And many many of us find it very telling that your only attack is to label us self-haters. As if guilt plays a part in any of this to any thinking person.
For the record, I DON'T hate homosexuals. I have known several who are very pleasant. As far as their lifestyle goes, I know that it is sinful and if asked will say that. However, I'm not really interested in hearing about anyone's sex life, I have a difficult enough time keeping my own wife happy, I don't want to hear about someone else's problems.
What I do oppose is their radical agenda that they are trying to force on people. To make the statement that those who are opposed to militant homosexualism hate homosexuals is like saying that those who are opposed to the feminazis hate women (and I happen to love women even if I don't have the vaguest idea what makes them tick).