My goodness. That "sfexpat2000" really is an blooming idiot. I almost feel pity.
You'd feel even more pity for the semicentenarian DUmmie if you read her latest in DUmmieland, about breaking up with her husband. They had been separated before, but now it appears permanent.
Allegedly he cleaned out the bank accounts, and left her with the bills and a dog and seven cats, but this after all is the semicentenarian DUmmie speaking.....