Because you talk about dating women as plural and the field loaded with wide ranging choices, and you spin it to sound you've sampled many of them. :~D Guess that's how I got it. Clearly, if a woman can't hold your interest past her 30-somethingish birthday, you're going to have to drop them all eventually :~)
Lots of men have dated several women in their lives. That's normal, and it doesn't make one a player (pejorative intended, I think).
The field is loaded with a wide range of choices. Does this upset you? I think it's a good thing.