Lots of men have dated several women in their lives. That's normal, and it doesn't make one a player (pejorative intended, I think).
The field is loaded with a wide range of choices. Does this upset you? I think it's a good thing.
I'm not upset in the slightest, I just think your attitude is one of a person playing the field is all... useful on threads about how to find dates, not so useful it helping relationships last, is all. :~)