OK,
here are some questions for you...
What is your wife's favorite color?
How does she like her coffee in the morning?
What is the name of her best friend?
What is her greatest dream or desire?
Where does buy her clothes?
What is the name of her favorite movie?
What is her favorite kind of date/outing?
What is her favorite gift from you?
What would she want to change about herself if she could?
What would she want to change about you?
Granted, some are no brainers, but the more you go ?? to, the more you need counseling.
You and others have hit the common cord that I haven't been attentive enough to her desires. But some of the answers to your questions are that I know what her likes and dislikes are and I have discovered that they are not the same as my likes and dislikes.
How do people with such disimilar interests, stay interested in each other?
Faking it is not a good long term solution. IMHO