You are in school to learn academic subjects. Reading, History, Writing, Math, English. If for any reason you are asked ANYTHING about your personal life, simply reply: N/A. And my children practiced writing "N/A". As a back-up, I taught my children that if they were asked to respond to ANYTHING INVOLVING THEIR HOME LIFE, THEIR PERSONAL LIVES, and the "N/A" was challenged, they were to simply tell the teacher or principle -- "to call my mom!" It worked.
I learned about all the different "surveys" and "talks" going on within pub ed between "facilitators" and "students". My two older students (then, second & 4th grade), wrote "N/A" on those surveys. Nothing ever came of it. They handed those empy forms back to the teacher. However, I learned years later that there was a paper with the note: "Do not Let Mrs Alia into the Classroom!" was in each of my children's files. Many years after that, in reviewing my children's files, that note had disappeared.
Enough was enough. I haven't even gone into the horror I found calling itself Pub Ed and how it was inflicting upon my children -- I homeschooled them, thereafter. I'd had it. They weren't getting an education -- there was no math or science. Spelling was "not being corrected". Inventive spelling was the practice, there was cooperative learning, and race-based math. I just happened to have my older children entering pub ed -- when it was at its worst.
But just as we tell our children not to talk to strangers, go with strangers.. I taught my children that they are being taught by strangers: And that they were not to do or comply with anything they felt personally uncomfortable with. And for them to request the teachers/principal call me.
I was trying to teach my children *real life* principles. And I did.