[Houmatt]

Terri may need to go "another round" with her ex..unfortunately. Normally the same issues & problems will manifest. For some women the grass always seems greener and they will chose bad selections again(as they perceive it is better than their last).

I am not sure what you mean with this. All I was saying is she is friendly with her first husband and his ex-girlfriend. I do not believe they are (or would be) dating again.

He will help you make the right "mate" choices.. maybe again Terri.. but maybe not..

I am sure there is a possibility another may be lined up for me in the future. Terri sure seemed to be the one for me, though. The way we influenced each other, finished each other's sentences and seemed to read the mind of the other.

What I am asking for in the here and now is to just be able to talk to her, to be on speaking terms. I want to tell her the things that are on my mind and lean on her every now and then. Not only that, she still has stuff of mind that I would not mind getting from her, like my comic book collection and films I have on VHS. My DVD copies of Charlie's Angels: Full Throttle and Mystery Science Theater 3000: The Movie are in her care as well.

But mostly I just want to be on speaking terms with her again.

[DollyCali]

timing is everything in life.. and maybe she is avoiding you to not give up the "treasures" she considers are hers. The spoils of a relationship often let people see the true person. Hope you do get to talk to her & get your things back.

[JustPiper]

Matt?
I must ask if she treated you so coldly, 'why' would you continue to want communication with her?

[A Navy Vet]

"Not only that, she still has stuff of mind that I would not mind getting from her, like my comic book collection and films I have on VHS. My DVD copies of Charlie's Angels: Full Throttle and Mystery Science Theater 3000: The Movie are in her care as well."

Unbelievable. Grow up and get a life or at least get a shrink. Sheesh.