Yep. This is a toughie. My Catholic best friend went through this, but then finally gave up the process. She felt compelled to do so because of her religion and strict upbringing. *SHRUG*
However, she donated the extra fertilized embryos to other couples that needed them. It was some consolation, but not much to either of us.
I’ve never been blessed with having birth children, but I have raised three boys to adulthood (plus one Husband, LOL!)
God puts you where you need to be where you’re needed most, IMHO.
I love my friend to pieces, but this is one issue we’ve never been able to rectify between us.