You brought it up. Why are you acting so defensive about it ? Aren't you willing to openly talk about your sex life ? If not, then why make such blanket statements ? You're more than willing to talk in the abstract, about what you will and will not do, when ( if ) you have a child / children. Heck, you talked about it with such unalloyed certainty, prior to admitting that you haven't any children , why not take this out of the realm of the hypothetical ?
Yoy're out of your depth ; perhaps you'd like to quit now ?
Actually, JediGirl displays an amazing amount of poise in discussing a very personal topic with men and women who are obviously much older than she. Quite atypical of a seventeen year old girl, in my opinion.
How many parents encourage their seventeen year old daughters to identify themselves as such on the internet,including the posting of a picture?