You missed my point. I said AFTER all the playing. If that's what you're doing now, you'll understand what I mean when you're playing plays out.
Being lonely and chaste, and being spiritually empty from sleeping around are two different things IMO.
I beg your pardon, then.
I'll never be certain of the difference, but the dark box of loneliness looks pretty much the same from inside, whatever it looks like on the outside. I have not played at all. The rhetorical question is the traditional one: If I'm getting to the same place, why not take the other road?