I beg your pardon, then.
I'll never be certain of the difference, but the dark box of loneliness looks pretty much the same from inside, whatever it looks like on the outside. I have not played at all. The rhetorical question is the traditional one: If I'm getting to the same place, why not take the other road?
I don't think having sex will cure your loneliness - and it will quite likely make you feel worse - when you realize that people have engaged you for sex, but not for YOU. Try finding a partner in life, whom you truly love, and with whom you can share everything.