Excuse me for misusing. One. Word. I appreciate your calling me on that as I would have done the same to someone else.
Is it your contention, then, that 17 year olds are " mature " enough to engage in all manner of sexual acts ?
Why does it matter to you?
You brought it up. Why are you acting so defensive about it ? Aren't you willing to openly talk about your sex life ? If not, then why make such blanket statements ? You're more than willing to talk in the abstract, about what you will and will not do, when ( if ) you have a child / children. Heck, you talked about it with such unalloyed certainty, prior to admitting that you haven't any children , why not take this out of the realm of the hypothetical ?
Yoy're out of your depth ; perhaps you'd like to quit now ?