Oh, that's a fiction from the Femisphere.
If women were more selective, they wouldn't be having so many illegitimate kids by different fathers who were in prison.
Getting it from Pookie, Ray Ray, and their cousins isn't being selective.
If she finds out he got all awkward, she knows he'll keep simping. If he acts like a beautiful woman hitting on him is a regular thing, she knows others of the sisterhood are chasing him.
Women have far less testosterone than men, and less sex drive. Women have sex out of boredom, men out of compunction.
For instance, before the AIDS epidemic, sexually active homosexual men had about 500 partners per year, lesbians tend to pair off. Sexually active women could have 500 partners a year, very few do. Female promiscuity is driven more by boredom than hormones. Men and women are not the same.