Women have far less testosterone than men, and less sex drive. Women have sex out of boredom, men out of compunction.
“ Women have far less testosterone than men, and less sex drive. Women have sex out of boredom, men out of compunction”
I don’t think that’s exactly correct.
I agree they are more careful and selective, but if they find a guy who tickles their fancy, they are no less agressive than men.
I have lived in a vacation/resort town my entire life, excepting the Army and school. Women on girls’ trips with non-judgmental girls (or off alone) were absolutely down for casual sex, married or unmarried. Actively sought it out, in fact.
But they were very choosy — looking for their fantasy guy. Apparently a common fantasy guy is a ski instructor or lumberjack type, of which I am both. A buddy who was a rocker was another.
What keeps them from casual sex in normal circumstances is social pressure to not be perceived as sluts. In short, they don’t act that way at home.
So, while I agree with you that women’s testosterone is lower, they are almost as much of horn dogs as men. They are just pickier. The social structure keeps them from acting out on it.