A bad boy shows up
Posted on 04/12/2023 1:50:28 PM PDT by nickcarraway
Beauty and the Beast fantasies don’t work out in real life.
Does Jordan Peterson say the opposite?
So this is why Laz get’s all the girls...
So it’s more exciting if you date a guy who beats the crap out of you once a month?
The pleasures of sin for a season.
As a certifiable Nice Guy, I can attest to at least some of the other gender who friendzoned me and ran off with the jerk. It is part of the price one pays for actually doing what women say they appreciate being done.
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There is no such thing toxic masculinity, only toxic human behavior.
Boring men make the best husbands and fathers because they are at work earning the money or home doing the boring home/family centered chores. Exciting men are off adventuring, spending time and money they haven’t got on something or someone other than the family.
Laz is so good, he’s very bad.
She speaks for a lot of women whether they want to admit it or not. They find nice guys boring so they go for “exciting” jerks. Then when they inevitably get hurt they blame all men for it.
Well no. Not really. Look closer to home for the source of your problems.
Men should have strong character and practical skills needed to lead a family.
Women should have traditional skills and values in order to raise and care for a happy family.
Other people can do their thing, and go their way, and generally be miserable.
“it’s more exciting if you date a guy who beats the crap out of you once a month”
Some women have such low self-esteem that they think they do deserve it.
If a guy treats them well they just get confused and uncomfortable.
Typically they come from families where their single mother’s boyfriends beat mom to a pulp.
Women are naturally attracted to masculine men. Most young men nowadays are video game addicted, slope-shouldered soy boys. Bad boys, unfortunately, are the perceived ‘masculine’ alternative. Chivalrous, moral, quality young men are a rarity.
Let us not forget that “bad boys” now include believing that heterosexuality is normal and not being a feminist ally (according to Google results, anyway). Shoot, I remember when leather, coke, and a motorcycle needed to be involved!
It’s in line with women’s dual mating strategy: Mate with the dangerous but capable alpha males who’ll ditch the mother anyway. The mother then tries to sucker in some beta cuck to simp and help the mother raise the alpha males’ children.
Some women like bad boys, some like nice guys.
The former usually end up endlessly bitching about men later in life.
One thing I have learned is that women categorize men into two broad classifications, the husband and the boyfriend. With boyfriend, she will make an effort to kerp him. She will dress up, buy him gifts, and she will be willing to have pornographic sex with him. With the husbands, she expects him to accept basic sex, if any at all, and she won’t really make the effort with him.
My advice, if you are the husband type, ramp up your expectations of her from the beginning because she isn’t expecting to have to work to keep you like she does with the boyfriend. If she doesn’t make thebeffort, be quick to cut her loose.
“How could the man I loved, whose children I wanted to have and breast-feed, be a heroin dealer?”
“It wasn’t heroin, it was angel dust, PCP”
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