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Dear Abby: I Cheated on My Husband and Brought Home an STI
New York Post ^ | February 3, 2023

Posted on 02/03/2023 11:37:39 AM PST by nickcarraway

DEAR ABBY: I’m very depressed and upset with myself. I cheated on my husband, “Hal,” and told him after I realized I had gotten an STI from the man I cheated with. Hal was very upset, and we didn’t talk for a day and a half, but he didn’t yell or call me names. I feel so guilty and confused. He’s being really nice, not cussing at me. It’s strange.

Things are different between us now, and it’s my fault. It will take time and patience, I guess. But I miss the intimacy and affection Hal and I once shared. Is it normal for me to want him to yell at me and show his anger? When I try to talk about him getting tested for STIs, he gets quiet and brings up the past. Please help me. I just want things back the way they were before I cheated. What do I do? — RELUCTANT CHEATER IN OREGON

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1 posted on 02/03/2023 11:37:39 AM PST by nickcarraway
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He’s being really nice, not cussing at me.

He's following his attorney's advice.

2 posted on 02/03/2023 11:38:42 AM PST by NorthMountain (... the right of the peopIe to keep and bear arms shall not be infringed)
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He's following his attorney's advice.

Or he's cheating on her too.

3 posted on 02/03/2023 11:40:15 AM PST by Bloody Sam Roberts (You can never have enough clamps. Thanks Ben.)
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To: Bloody Sam Roberts

or he’s hoping the new guy will take her off his hands


4 posted on 02/03/2023 11:41:23 AM PST by Bob434
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To: nickcarraway
I just want things back the way they were before I cheated. What do I do?

Not gonna happen - can't undo the past, can't unring the bell. You screwed up, honey - and regaining the broken trust is so incredibly difficult.

5 posted on 02/03/2023 11:41:50 AM PST by Quality_Not_Quantity ("...for the sake of His name." Psalm 23:3)
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To: nickcarraway

Adultery is abuse. You expose your unwilling spouse to unknown numbers of sexual diseases, some of them fatal.


6 posted on 02/03/2023 11:42:22 AM PST by Persevero (You cannot comply your way out of tyranny. )
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To: Bloody Sam Roberts

Or he’s following Jesus’ teachings and keeping his calm .... while he’s divorcing her.


7 posted on 02/03/2023 11:42:46 AM PST by Tell It Right (1st Thessalonians 5:21 -- Put everything to the test, hold fast to that which is true.)
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To: nickcarraway

“Nice guys come in last.” Genghis Khan...


8 posted on 02/03/2023 11:42:52 AM PST by ganeemead (Ukraine/Zelensky: Adding an element of chutzpah to ordinary Nazism...)
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To: nickcarraway

The guy she slept with has been around, probably a handsome f*** boi. Her hormones got the better of her.


9 posted on 02/03/2023 11:43:07 AM PST by Fido969 (45 is Superman! )
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To: nickcarraway
Well, if you must cheat on your husband, a little sporty car is a nice makeup gift.


10 posted on 02/03/2023 11:43:11 AM PST by Dr. Sivana (But yet the Son of man, when he cometh, shall he find, think you, faith on earth? (Luke 18:8))
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I’m really naïve...When I read the title I thought she got mad at her husband then went out and bought a car.


11 posted on 02/03/2023 11:43:19 AM PST by mikelets456
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To: nickcarraway

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CtGxusvUT3k

Don Meredith is singing for her marriage.

“Turn out the lights, the party’s over...”


12 posted on 02/03/2023 11:43:55 AM PST by DesertRhino (Dogs are called man's best friend. Moslems hate dogs. Add it up..)
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To: Bob434
or he’s hoping the new guy will take her off his hands

The "new guy" isn't going to settle for one babe.

13 posted on 02/03/2023 11:44:06 AM PST by Fido969 (45 is Superman! )
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To: nickcarraway

Bwaaahahaha!


14 posted on 02/03/2023 11:44:40 AM PST by old school
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To: Persevero

Wow, you are a nevertrumper.


15 posted on 02/03/2023 11:44:41 AM PST by nickcarraway
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“I had gotten an STI from the man I cheated with. Hal was very upset”

Gee.....ya think???


16 posted on 02/03/2023 11:44:58 AM PST by V_TWIN (America...so great even the people that hate it refuse to leave!)
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To: Fido969
or he’s hoping the new guy will take her off his hands

followed by The "new guy" isn't going to settle for one babe.

That's her problem, not the old guy's problem.

17 posted on 02/03/2023 11:45:59 AM PST by Tell It Right (1st Thessalonians 5:21 -- Put everything to the test, hold fast to that which is true.)
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To: nickcarraway

For every guy who likes her coming, another guy likes to see her take her shit and leave!


18 posted on 02/03/2023 11:46:44 AM PST by Herakles (Diversity is applied Marxism )
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To: V_TWIN

...what’s that old expession...? “Actions have consequences....” ....jus’ sayin’ ......


19 posted on 02/03/2023 11:46:59 AM PST by TokarevM57 (u)
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To: mikelets456

2021 Subaru WRX STI Starting at $38,170

20 posted on 02/03/2023 11:47:34 AM PST by Red Badger (Homeless veterans camp in the streets while illegal aliens are put up in hotels.....................)
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