Would you say the same thing about Ronald Reagan and Ron Jr?
I know for certain that Reagan would never have said this on broadcast television three days after the destruction of the World Trade Center while thousands of people were still unaccounted for by their frantic and panicking families:
"[T]he pagans and the abortionists and the feminists and the gays and the lesbians who are actively trying to make that an alternative lifestyle, the ACLU, People for the American Way — all of them who have tried to secularize America," Falwell continued, "I point the finger in their face and say 'you helped this happen.'" - Jerry Falwell
What often happens in powerful families is that the father is very neglectful of his children. He just assumes that, if there are no very obvious problems, that their children are fine.
Jerry Falwell Sr. may have been a great preacher and great pastor, but it would appear that he wasn’t the best of fathers.