It wasn’t just over a soda.
The customer clearly provoked the fight first with throwing the milkshake at her, and then with picking up a tray and slamming it into the manager’s face as hard as she could.
The customer got what she asked for.
She started a fight but didn’t finish it.
And she went back for more and then when the manager finally walks away, she FOLLOWS the manager, apparently still shooting her mouth off.
These days, you can keep your cool, do all the right things, call the copsand still lose your job because the offended party creates a national Twit(ter)storm over it.