I don’t think any men who know or knew me would call me alpha, even my exes. I’m just no longer willing to put myself aside 100% for the man. Life is too short.
“I’m just no longer willing to put myself aside 100% for the man.”
I think when you came to that decision, you did indeed become an alpha-willing to share with an alpha male, but not to totally submit/defer to one anymore...
The other reason I’m the alpha when choosing/purchasing food is because I’m the one totally disciplined when it comes to eating healthy-there will be no processed food, only free range/grass fed meat, chemical free fresh fruit and veggies, only brown rice, no refined sugar or carbs, GMOs etc-I’m sure it is a real buzzkill sometimes for him, but he asked me to do it that way...
I know he sneaks stuff into his place during the workweek sometimes-I’ve busted him with brownies, cupcakes and even (gag!)sodas-if he likes to consume that crap sometimes, that is okay-but none of that at my place...