The other reason I’m the alpha when choosing/purchasing food is because I’m the one totally disciplined when it comes to eating healthy-there will be no processed food, only free range/grass fed meat, chemical free fresh fruit and veggies, only brown rice, no refined sugar or carbs, GMOs etc-I’m sure it is a real buzzkill sometimes for him, but he asked me to do it that way...
I know he sneaks stuff into his place during the workweek sometimes-I’ve busted him with brownies, cupcakes and even (gag!)sodas-if he likes to consume that crap sometimes, that is okay-but none of that at my place...
I remember that we’ve discussed this a tiny bit before so I think (hope) you’ll be ok with this direction.
If I was telling a man what he could or could not eat, and he was okay with that, I don’t think I would be attracted to him for the long haul.
That’s just me, your mileage may vary.