But if he was truly an alpha male would he want an alpha female?
I don’t think any men who know or knew me would call me alpha, even my exes. I’m just no longer willing to put myself aside 100% for the man. Life is too short.
It works for wolves-the alpha pair leads/rules the pack together...
It works that way for me-we take turns-if I’m at his place-his “territory”, I defer to the way he wants things done-when he is at my place-my “territory”, he defers to me in the same way. In private decisions/matters, the one who has the professional expertise in whatever is being considered takes the alpha role-it just makes sense...
In the grocery store, butcher shop, etc I’m the alpha since I do the lion’s share of the food preparation/cooking-otherwise in public, he does take the alpha turn-he opens the door for me, puts his arm on my waist when we go into a building-I even let him order for me in restaurants-he likes that...
May sound a bit complicated, but it isn’t-we share that alpha role without much thought...