Thread is open again.
My post to you hit the wall, when the admin moderator freaked out, and now I forgot what is was about, except that it was about a gay couple, both highly successful professionals, church going, "married" in a ceremony by a rogue Episcopalean priest with family and friends in attendance (they did the wedding dance ;)), with two adopted kids, whom, so far as I know, don't engage in any risky behaviors when it comes to their health. One size does not fit all.