Bingo. Gravity is also "only a theory", but amazingly it doesn't get a sticker.
No, much of science is about things than can be measured, weight, seen, felt, heard etc. Gravity can be measured and it's effects observed, water will wet you, fire will burn. These things can be tested, observed and measured repeatedly, as many times as you like with identical or near identical results. Evolution is observational theory that is untestable, so it remains theory, not fact.
No, not the commonly held definition of "theory".
We are talking biology here, not metaphysics...
What we really need is a sticker on science textbooks that explains what the word "theory" means in science.
http://www.evolution.mbdojo.com/theory.html
excerpt:
Is Evolution a fact or a theory?
The theory of evolution explains how life on earth has changed. In scientific terms, "theory" does not mean "guess" or "hunch" as it does in everyday usage. Scientific theories are explanations of natural phenomena built up logically from testable observations and hypotheses. Biological evolution is the best scientific explanation we have for the enormous range of observations about the living world. Scientists most often use the word "fact" to describe an observation. But scientists can also use fact to mean something that has been tested or observed so many times that there is no longer a compelling reason to keep testing or looking for examples. The occurrence of evolution in this sense is a fact. Scientists no longer question whether descent with modification occurred because the evidence supporting the idea is so strong.
Why isn't evolution called a law?
Laws are generalizations that describe phenomena, whereas theories explain phenomena. For example, the laws of thermodynamics describe what will happen under certain circumstances; thermodynamics theories explain why these events occur. Laws, like facts and theories, can change with better data. But theories do not develop into laws with the accumulation of evidence. Rather, theories are the goal of science.